#Peter the 3rd borne child of 5 & 1st of 3 sons that has enlisted into the United States Military. Both of his two older brothers joined the service ranks of the United States Army Rangers & United States National Guards men. A Lover of the ocean. Peter was motivated by his grandmother to enlist in the United States Navy & served 6 years. He sailed the seas on three different Nimitz-class aircraft carriers. Following the 3 Nimitz-class Peter was stationed and worked the HSG-3 at NAS North Island, in San Diego, CA and lastely the Wasp Amphibious assault ship of the USS Makin Island LHD-8~IYASOYAS He has traveled many voyages to distant lands. To setting sails asea humbled by nature , a Kind Soul. Peter had Heart! A big Heart at that A rare breed of his time A lover in his own right . He expected nothing less than that of the same Love & Kindness in return.. Just an all around kinda guy. He was a world traveler, a reason to smile ,and an inspiration to be a better. Peter’s legacy will be honored as we celebrate his life & live everyday as he did. Thank you, Peter for your Service to our country and for your Sacrifices for our freedom. May the seas lie smooth before you. May a gentle breeze forever fill your sails. May sunshine warm your face, And kindness warm your soul. # FOREVERPETER♥ ♥mom ~Fair winds and Following seas, shipmate, we have the watch.
Healthcare
Survivor Health & Dental Care Benefits
Navigating benefits can be challenging. Here is a summary of the health and dental care coverage available to eligible surviving spouses and children.
TRICARE Health Care Benefits
All eligible spouses and children of a deceased service member retain their military health care coverage. The specifics of this coverage change over time.
For Surviving Spouses
- First Three Years (Transitional Survivor Status): For the first three years after a service member's death, surviving spouses are covered by TRICARE at the same rates as active-duty dependents.
- After Three Years (Survivor Status): Following the three-year transitional period, the cost for TRICARE Prime, as well as co-pays and cost-shares, will adjust to the rates for retirees.
- Notification: You will be notified by TRICARE approximately six months before this change occurs to help you plan accordingly.
For Surviving Children
Recent changes have extended TRICARE benefits for surviving children.
- Eligibility: Children remain in the "transitional survivor" category, receiving coverage at active-duty dependent rates, until they turn 21 (or 23 if enrolled full-time in college).
- Retroactive Benefit: This enhanced benefit is retroactive for survivors of service members whose deaths occurred on or after October 7, 2001.
- Automatic Restoration: Children who were previously moved to the higher-cost survivor status have been automatically restored to the transitional status with active-duty payment rates (no Prime enrollment fees or co-payments).
Extended Care Health Option (ECHO)
Families with a disabled family member may be eligible to register for the Extended Care Health Option (ECHO). It may be possible to have past claims and enrollment fees reprocessed for a refund.
Get More Details
- For complete information on survivor health benefits, visit the TRICARE Survivor Web Page.
- To discuss your specific TRICARE options, claims history, or possible reimbursements, contact your regional TRICARE contractor or the overseas claims processor if you were living abroad.
Military Dental Care Benefits
The TRICARE Dental Program (TDP) provides specific benefits for surviving family members.
- Premium-Free Coverage: Surviving spouses and children who were enrolled in the TDP at the time of the service member's death receive three years of premium-free coverage.
- After Three Years: Following this period, you will be notified of disenrollment from the TDP and informed of your eligibility to enroll in the TRICARE Retiree Dental Program (TRDP).
Special Circumstances
- Families assigned overseas who had disenrolled from the TDP may reenroll to receive this benefit.
- Children under age 4 who were too young to be enrolled are also eligible for coverage.
- For more information on dental benefits, please visit the TRICARE Dental Program Survivor Information page or the Retiree Survivor Dental Benefit page.
Important Note on Eligibility
Remarriage: A surviving spouse's eligibility for military health and dental care benefits ends upon remarriage. These benefits cannot be reinstated unless the new marriage is legally annulled.
Navy Gold Star Tributes
James was a very caring person. He volunteered at the USO in Guam before he passed away. He broke his wrist when he was in high school and we were driving 30 miles from home one day and blew a tire. He would not let me change the tire. He told me his casts were so hard it did not hurt to change the tire. I and his brother miss him so much. We love you James Dyer!!!
We love and miss you to the moon and back. Rest in peace-Mom, Dad, Brothers and Sister
Petty Officer 1st Class Brian Richard Stead was born on the Northshore of Boston on January 17, 1990. He grew up amongst a large and loving family and group of friends.
After college Brian enlisted in the Navy, wanting to be part of the world’s greatest team. He served proudly from 2013 until 2024. In the course of those 11 years, he achieved the rank of Petty Officer 1st Class and earned several medals and accommodations. In November of 2021 Brian married Reiko Suzuki and in June of 2023 welcomed a beautiful daughter, Emi Stead. Sadly in April of 2024 we lost Brian as he was serving in the Navy. He is missed by all that knew him, we have all lost a fine man. He will forever be in our hearts. It is with pride that Brian served our nation.
Captain DeConto, a Sandwich MA native, was killed during the 9/11 Terrorist Attack on the Pentagon while on duty in the Navy Command Center. Captain DeConto was a dedicated Naval Officer who was respected and admired by those he served for and by those that served for him. He was a high-spirited , caring person who enjoyed many activities, one of which was running, and he enjoyed them most when they were shared with friends and family. His Navy career took him all over the world but he returned to Cape Cod whenever he could, and he spent the weekend before 9/11 in Sandwich with family and friends. The Captain DeConto Memorial Scholarship Fund was set up in his memory to honor him and the legacy he left behind which is one of service to his county, leadership, friendship and love of life and family.
Jake was raised in Tyngsboro, MA and later moved to Plymouth, MA. Jake was excited to join the US Navy after realizing that college wasn't for him. He started his service in Groton, CT at the Naval Submarine Base where he made many friends and eventually was stationed at Pearl Harbor.
He loved video games, Pokemon, painting Warhammer figures, skiing, time with his friends and family, and his dog Evie. He had a talent for drawing and a great Christopher Walken impression. His family misses his boisterous laugh, quirky humor and sparkling green eyes. Jake was 24 at the time of his passing.
From an early age it was clear that Will was destined to serve in the military. He was simply built to protect. He was a highly intelligent young man who had a photographic memory. He joined the Navy in January 2014. He scored a 98 on the ASVAB and was offered anything he wanted. He chose sonar and was the honor grad in A School. He served his entire career aboard the USS Chafee, DDG 90. He was well trained in martial arts and was also on the Anti-Terrorist Team. In his final deployment in 2017 there was a total casualty of the Array. It was unspooling and about to be lost at sea. He devised a way to reverse and repair the issue and was able to retrieve the invaluable equipment, put it back in service and affording the ship the ability to return to Pearl Harbor solo without delay. Today, every ship in the Navy has a manual with this procedure under his name. The Navy named the Winch Room that houses the Array aboard the Chafee in Will's honor.
He left behind his wife Whitney and newborn son Connor, who was only 6 weeks old at his passing, as well as a family who misses him each and every day. He made a difference in the lives of everyone he touched. He further left a legacy of honor, dedication, valor and military bearing for his time served in the US Navy.
CE1 (Construction Electrician) Tito L. Ruiz was born in the Philippines on April 2, 1974. He graduated from Radford High School in 1993 and joined the Navy in January 19, 1999.
His duty stations includes U.S. Naval Support Unit, State Department, NSA/NIOC Hawaii, NCTS FE Yokosuka, NMCB1 Gulfport Mississippi, and NCTS FE Det Sasebo where he served as the Base Communication Assistant Manager.
CE1 Tito Ruiz is survived by his wife, Melody Ruiz and they have 3 children ( Fiona, Ysabella and Tj)
Jason D Jablonski, (‘JJ’), Orchard Park, NY, had the innate ability to be both encouraging and commanding as a leader. At a young age, he recognized that with hard work and dedicated effort, he could accomplish whatever goals he set for himself excelling in high school and at the United States Naval Academy accumulating multiple athletic and academic awards leading his athletic teams being voted captain of every team he played on. A a true leader who always put the team above self, in August 2016, just prior to his Senior year at USNA, JJ was diagnosed with Leukemia. In mid-November he learned he had been granted his first-choice service assignment to be commissioned as a Naval Aviation Officer upon the 2017 graduation. However, on November 27, 2016, due to complications related to his leukemia treatment, Jason passed away peacefully at the age of 21 surrounded by family and friends after being ‘pinned’ with Navy Pilot wings. He left behind his loving parents, Joe and Lori, two older sisters, Janelle and Casey, a dedicated girlfriend, teammates, company-mates, and an incredible number of friends. In his Advanced Directives, he indicated the desire to address the unique needs of AYAs who are diagnosed with cancer, a Fellowship has been launched to fulfill his wishes.
John A Deltoro, a wonderful son, brother, husband, and father. He lit up any room he entered with his smile and sense of humor. His laugh was infectious. He loved his children with his whole heart. They were his world and he made sure they, and his wife Heather, never went without. John and his sister Sarah had an unbreakable bond. He and his brother in law Philip were more like brothers than in laws. John and his brother James enjoyed spending time together. John always checked in on his mom and stepdad Carl, his dad and stepmom Kathy(although in our family, "step" wasn't a word), and other family members. He loved football and was a die hard Georgia Bulldawgs fan. He enjoyed woodworking and was an avid gamer. John was proud to be a member of the United States Navy and felt honored to serve his country. He is loved and missed by all he touched.
Timothy Matthew McGowan (IW/SW) enlisted in the Navy in 2012, and at the time of his death (2025) he was a Senior Chief for Cryptologic Technician Collection (CTRCS). He was awarded during his service three Navy Achievement Medals and one Joint Service Commendation Medal. He served on two deployments, with the first for the Global War on Terrorism, and on the second he earned a Realm of the Arctic certificate. Tim served on the USS Arleigh Burke and USS Oscar Austin, and worked at CWG-67 on multiple tours including as command career counselor. His last service medal earned was the Defense Meritorious Service Medal.
Hayden is a beloved son, brother, and friend to more than can be counted. He proudly served two extensive deployments on the USS Abraham Lincoln protecting our country. He has been known throughout his life in and outside of service as one of the kindest, most thoughtful, and authentic human beings. He is exceptionally proud of his love for his family, commitment to the Navy and his placement on Seal Team Ten. While he is intensely missed on this earth, he will be carried in our hearts forever.
Matt was a soft spoken man who cared deeply for his family. He loved hunting. One of his best friends in the Navy said what he remembered about Matt was his infectious laugh. We were so proud of Matt’s achievement's and just knew he had a great future ahead of him. Matt had a fierce pride in his service with the Navy. Although we lost him too soon, along with the deep pain of his loss, we have a great pride in the man he had become through his family and his service.
Lt. Ronald E. Irwin was an extraordinary individual who was loved by all that knew him. His selflessness and love of God enabled him to touch the lives of many people that he came across. His love for his family set the foundation for his determination to achieve great things. Although he is no longer with us his legacy will continue on through many generations, for he has instilled in us a love for life, and an educational foundation that will allow us to strive for bigger and better things in life just as he did. As a husband, father, and friend, we know his spirit will forever live on in our hearts and souls.
Joseph Anthony Reese II, Fire Controlmen II Petty Officer Officer 2nd Class was born July 6, 1996 and died September 19, 2020. Joseph served in the United States Navy. He loved life and he leaves his parents, Robert and Valerie Byas and 5 siblings, James Talley III, Janelle Talley, Janee' Talley, Christopher Talley and Christian Talley behind to cherish his memory. Joseph brought joy to our lives and he will forever be missed.
Lt. JG Wallace Eugene Burch died on October 1, 2015 as a result of a training accident when the T-45 that Wallace and Lt. Patrick Ruth were flying crashed in Tellico Plains, Tennessee. Wallace was born on October 15, 1991 in Nashville, Tennessee. He graduated from DeSoto Central High School in 2010 and Mississippi State University in 2014. Wallace attended Naval Officer Candidate School in September, 2014 and was commissioned as an Ensign with Class 05-15E on January 16, 2015. Wallace reported to VT-6 for Primary Flight Training in the T-6B in June, 2015. While in Pensacola, Wallace was awarded the Commodore’s List with Distinction for superior performance during training. In April, 2016, Wallace was selected for the Strike Training Pipeline and reported to VT-7 in Meridian, Mississippi. He was a member of Class 16-95 with VT-7 and finished immediate Jet training in March, 2017. Wallace had a magnetic personality and was a friend to so many. He is loved and missed everyday by his family and close friends.