Navy Gold Star Program Information & Resource Site

Navy Gold Star is the Navy’s official program for providing long-term support to surviving families of Sailors who pass while on Active Duty. If you are visiting this page because you are a surviving family member of a deceased service member, please accept our most heartfelt sympathy and gratitude for your loved one’s service and sacrifice in defending our nation . . .

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Navy Gold Star Tributes

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Douglas Robert Beichner

26 Sep 2009

Doug was, from the moment of his birth, such a joy-he was always smiling. He was intelligent, inquisitive, caring, funny and happy. It’s been over 11 years since he died and while the wound is not as raw, the large piece of my heart and soul that I lost when I lost him can never be filled. There are no words to ex-press how much I miss him.

At his Funeral one of his shipmates spoke and said “Doug could walk into a room of 40 miserable men and within 30 seconds they would all be laughing at something he said or did. “That is just one of the many ways that he has remembered by the people in his life. He was dedicated to his job in the Navy as a Turbine Engineer and also as a Search and Rescue Swimmer (SAR), a position in which he trained rigorously and consistently as he had to be in top physical shape for this selfless and dangerous job. That was just a little of who he was, caring and always thinking of others before himself. He was Doug Beichner, my son, my joy, one of my three miracles God has given me, and no mother could be prouder.

Parents-Deborah Schurman, Edward Beichner, Sister-Alison Beichner, Brother-Daniel Beichner. Beloved Dog-Chopper

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Hendrice M. Robinson

12 Jan 2009

Hendrice was Gods divine gift to our family. He was a very determined young man always encouraging others. He was funny, a poet and a gifted musician who played by ear. After high school he joined the US Navy stationed at Great Lake, IL. He went on to become a Ceremonial Guard and participant in several famous services.
He later went on to traveling around the world on several ships. Whenever he came home he brought gifts and spend quality time with his brothers, family and friends. We truly miss him.

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Jayson Brettin

29 Apr 2015

Jay was a great sailor and an even better man. When I first met him we were both sailors, the A-Ganger and the Hul Tech, at that time I out ranked him but it didn’t last long as he quickly moved up the ranks. He was admired and respected by the many sailors who served with him and under him. Jay was very proud of serving his country and had been out to sea most of his 23 year career. Sadly, he passed away while preparing to go out to sea yet again on the USS Alabama. Jay loved his family very much and was looking forward to his upcoming retirement and being able to spend more time with his family and friends. He was a kind, generous man with a big heart and a warm smile and exhibited those traits every day. His was the definition of a life well-lived! He touched many people’s lives and is greatly missed.–Lisa Brettin, Gold Star Spouse

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Sean Bell

28 Feb 2021

Sean wanted to serve since he was in the 6th grade. He was also named after Sean Connery. He left for boot camp 07/05/2001 and graduated just after 09/01/2001. During his time in the Army, he achieved 2 Bachelors degrees, 2 Masters degrees and was working toward his Doctoral degree. He was also a Bronze Star recipient. He lost his battle with his demons, just 5 weeks shy of retirement. After his passing, his dad and I realized that we raised a boy until age 18, but learned what kind of man he was. He was a thoughtful leader, who lead by example. We so miss his giggle - didn't laugh he giggled - and the smile he had every time he saw us. RIP my son. We sure miss you. Love, Mom and Dad ~ Mission #22

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Tyler Grotjan

12 Jul 2018

Tyler, born prematurely in Charleston, SC, from the very beginning, had to be a fighter. As a middle child of seven siblings, he grew up with a strong sense of responsibility and kindness. In 2010, Tyler graduated from Beacon Academy of Colchester, CT, showcasing his academic achievements and dedication. His dream of joining the military led him to enlist in the Air Force in 2012. His initial duty station was RAF Lakenheath in England, followed by Korea and ultimately, Seymour Johnson AFB in NC. During his six-year tenure in the Air Force, Tyler demonstrated exceptional service and bravery, deploying four times, including his final deployment in support of Operation Inherent Resolve. July 12, 2018, Tyler passed away, leaving behind a legacy of love and admiration for all who knew him. His final resting place is in Waterford, CT, where he was laid to rest with full military honors.

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Connor Baker

08 Jul 2023

Connor was a longtime resident of New Lenox, IL and graduated from Mt. Carmel High School in Chicago, IL in 2010. He attended the University of Illinois where he played on the Rugby team. Connor was proud of his almost nine years of service in the Navy. Connor was a Master at Arms Second Class. He was posthumously promoted to PO1. Connor was a friend to all and worked tirelessly to help the underdog. He is dearly missed by his family and friends.

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Navy Gold Star Testimonials

KRIS ROMEO BISHUNDAT'S FAMILY

Patricia you are perfect for the job you do with the Gold Star Families. Talking to you over the phone felt like I have known you before and meeting you in person validate my feelings. After almost 14 years it means something special to meet other parents and families who have walked our path and the others who are now on that long painful journey our prayers are with all to find comfort.Gold Star Mom and Dad, Maryland

Gold Star Family

'This was a great experience for me. I am so glad I did it. I appreciate all of the work and coordination from everyone involved. Thanks for your program. It meant a lot to me and my husband. We were taken on a tour of the hanger, meet some of the men now in the squadron, and had a very nice time. Thank you very much Sandra.'

Gold Star Family

Susanna, thanks for all you do for the Gold Star Families. . .encouraging Dolores to submit a tribute for our son Rene was just another example of how you are always reaching out to care for and encourage family members to remember and celebrate the lives of their loved ones.Thank you! Bill & Dolores

Gold Star Spouse, California

As a survivor of a military serviceman, I'm so pleased for all of you in supporting and caring for those who have lost their love ones like mine. Your kindness and cooperation is being appreciated.

Delrio Family

Thank you very much for everything Erick it was a pleasure to meet you in person, I hope that we are able to maintain communication with the Navy Gold Star program that represents so much satisfaction and happiness for us to unite with other families. Hugs

Judi and Pat, Gold Star Wives of America, Inc.

We were very happy to see Gold Star Navy in the Resource Room at the Snowball Express in Dallas Texas. Rufus and Stephanie provided valuable information and also helped in the event. Thank you for being there for us.

Gold Star Dad

Thanks Sabrina for your greatful assistance in obtaining gold star pins for me and my family. We do appreciate your hard work in making this possible.

Carol & Andrea

Mrs. Jackson, you're such a blessing. We don't feel forgotten after our loss anymore. We greatly appreciate the moral support you provided to us. Thank you very much for all you do. Carol & Andrea