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The essence and impact of human beings are easier felt and often better understood after passing. The state of mind experienced when they are no longer in our midst renders life unintelligible and creates long term conflict with our emotions and, ultimately, in the lasting mental, physical and spiritual wellbeing of us, the families we raise and nurture as well as in the manner we enjoy our present way of life as we aim to protect existing and future generations at all costs. Why? Because the sacrifice made is worth it!!
For his absence to be bearable and available to our next generation, we must consciously continue training and growing leaders with integrity and substance. Leaders who possess unwavering empathy for others in respectful and fair ways. Leaders with unconventional resourcefulness and collective vision to serve others. And above all, leaders with uncompromising conviction and courage to accomplish a mission regardless of its complexity, magnitude and overall difficulty.
Our son Stephen “Rod” had these qualities and so much more. He was such a leader and more. May his soul and that of his military service brothers and sisters rest in peace and forever be in the grace of God, Amen.
Bartos joined the German Air Force right after his 18th birthday, and soon deployed to Holloman AFB, NM. Never did we think he´d be stationed in the USA, nor that he'd remain there. After leaving the GAF, he served in the US Navy, and made America his adopted country. He was an exceptional person in so many aspects; a beloved son of whom his parents are incredibly proud, my little brother whom i dearly love and to whom i always looked up, a father who loved his little boy beyond imagination, a valued friend, always there when needed, and he was a dedicated military member who served with steadfast pride, and deep care for his Navy family. He was the funniest person to be around, but he would always speak his mind and have the backs of those he loved. Fair winds and following seas, Sailor – You´re missed by many!
Commander-Select in the United States Navy
Dwayne was a kind and gentle soul who loved bicycling and underground music. He had the temperament and intelligence to bring calm to chaos, which made him very good in his line of work as a Surface Warfare Officer. Dwayne's 19-year career in the U.S. Navy ended with him just three months shy of being promoted to full commander. He enrolled in the U.S. Naval Academy at 17, graduating in 1999 with a Bachelor of Science Degree in English. His career in the Navy took him all over the world with the USS Peleliu (2000-2002), Commander, Amphibious Squadron Three (2002-2004), Naval Air Station Sigonella (2004-2006), USS Lassen (2007), Commander, Naval Surface Force U.S. Pacific Fleet (2007-2009), USS Mobile Bay (2009-2011), USS Boxer (2011-2013), and the USS Essex (2013-2014).
DARRYL LAMOTT HALEY BORN ON SEPTEMBER 4, 1986. HE LOVED TO PLAY BASKETBALL AND HE WAS A GAMER. WHEN WAS YOUNG HE LIKED TO READ ALSO. HE HAD ONLY ONE CHILD, HIS NAME IS ZYBIR HALEY. HE LOVED HIM DEARLY. GOING INTO THE NAVY WAS SOMETHING HE ALWAYS WANT TO DO. I’M SO GLAD THAT HE WAS ABLE TO DO WHAT HE DREAMED OF. THE DAY I RECEIVED HIS NAVY PHOTOS, THE SMILE ON MY SON FACE TOLD IT ALL I KNEW HE WAS HAPPY. I MISS HIM EVERYDAY NOT BEING ABLE TO TALK TO HIM. HE WAS MY GO TO, HE KNEW THINGS I DIDN’T WANT ANYBODY ELSE TO KNOW, NOT HAVE THAT HURTS M HEART. I’LL DEAL WITH IT DAY BY DAY. HE IS TRULY MISSED BY HIS BROTHERS AND SISTERS(NAKIA,CHANTA,JALEEL,SHAQULLE) I WEAR YOU AROUND MY NECK EVERYDAY AND TO MY SURSPISE I MET A LOT OF PEOPLE THAT KNEW YOU AND STILL MEETING PEOPLE TO THIS DAY. MOMMY JUST WANTS YOU TO KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU A LOT, SO PROUD OF YOU
RITA DILLARD-HALEY