Navy Gold Star Program

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AO3 Tevin LeMar Spencer
March 9, 1997 - September 7, 2023

Tevin LeMar Spencer was 26 years old when he passed. He was a warrior f...

- AO3 Tevin LeMar

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I would like to commend the Navy for providing a single point of contact for Gold Star Families. I have had to use it on occasion and it has really been a valuable asset.

More importantly I would like to put in a positive review of your Gold Star Coordinator, Emily Kolinda. I am a Gold Star spouse AND a retired Naval Aviator 0-6, so I come from both sides of the equation. I married my Naval Aviator 0-6 spouse late in life and so we had our daughter very late. When I lost Eric, I discovered the hardships of being a single parent, something I never truly appreciated. Navigating life without Eric was hard enough, but the VA triples the effort required and works hard to make you fight for every benefit for you and your children. Even today I struggle with just changing my address and bank deposits. DFAS is so much easier but the VA makes you work to find contact numbers etc. And I am an educated computer savvy person. In fact training Emily on the ins and outs of the VA would be a tremendous help for Gold Star spouses and children. I could detail my issues over the years but you don’t have enough time.

So, here is what I want to tell you about Emily. Perhaps this is in her job description, but she makes you feel cared for and special. She is a great communicator. She keeps the information coming and lets us decide what we want or not. She follows up with us to make sure we are getting the emails and info and if you respond to her, she is quick to reply. She takes the time to review who she is talking to, so that when you get an email she know I have a daughter who lost her father, even though my daughter is 25. Both of us get cards and emails and it is important to both of us, but it has a special effect on my daughter, who was only 11 when her father died. She will research questions and provide answers although it may not be exactly in her sphere of knowledge. What can I say, SHE IS AWESOME and I can’t express how much I appreciate both her and the Navy for following up with me even though it has been almost 15 years since Eric’s death. Thank you, we do APPRECIATE your service to us.

- Paula

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